It's been two years since the birth of my son and two years since the death of my sex drive. So many thoughts ran threw my head of why this happen, but I must say I hate it. I thought I didn't love my husband no more, but when we do have sex it's fabulous. Then I thought I wanted another man, but when I see or look they tend to make me realize that hell all men are the same why leave or cheat on what I have. Last I thought I was turning into a lesbian, but the thought of me licking a clit or sucking on another breast did nothing for me. Another girl, another period, more emotions I could not deal with. So after being confused and depressed of my situation I went to a counselor. She helped me realize that stress has killed my sex drive. The factors of my life and where I am has led me to deep depression.

After a few sessions, even with my husband helped me slightly come back to life. My goal that was set by counselor was to set a plan and stick with it. The way I use to be.

Now that we took this new journey I have gotten my joy back. I am starting to have room for the nasty thoughts and wanting to be sexual again. It's taking some time, because of the move, but once we settle I see another baby 2013.

The best part of getting my mo-jo back is knowing I had a patient husband. Since he was so focus on his hustle, he gave me time to find myself. His love has grown for me unconditionally sometimes it freak s me out. But I come to see he loves me for me. If he cheated I swear I'll be hurt, but I could not be mad.

So my message to the women married not wanting to have sex. Get help! That's the easy way to put it! This is a normal thing and can happen to any women. So don't be ashamed to pin point the problem. Help is there so utilize it.

After the help and you still don't wanna have sex it's one of three things:

1.) your no longer attractive to him
2.) your stressed
3.) your feeling unpretty

Figure it out that's the only way the you can get that feeling back.

~Tammy

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