Thursday, March 31, 2011

Ever been Edged before?

So I never knew that when you are having sex and just as your about to release, the person pulls back because they don't want you to cum has a name. Well it does and they call it Edging. So What is Edging? Edging refers to the process of bringing yourself or a partner right up to the point of orgasm and then pulling back before release, and then repeating the process.

Now Edging requires time so if you are just fucking edging is not for you. The whole point of edging is to prolong and postpone orgasm, so edging can take any length of time. Lets get something clear, just because a person is edging with you does not mean they emotionally have a connection with you. A lot of people especially men have a emotional connection during sex ONLY. If this is someone you just begun to sleep with I do not think edging will be good for you, because we all know when men get it they turn into walking do-boys. So if they begin to edge with you, you may get it confused. He may be attracted to you, but remember it could be because of sex. Now this can be tricky as well, because if it is a fling then if one of the two starts to Edge can mean they are begging to have an emotional attachment with you, which can cause issues in your "call when I need you" relationship. Edging can cause confusion and can also be lots of fun. It’s also a great way to deepen your connection to your own, or someone else’s sexual needs, so be careful on who you edge with. Here are a few tips and techniques for edging.
  1. Edging for stronger orgasms.
    Edging isn’t just a fun way to bring some teasing into your sex play. Most people report that orgasms from edging are more intense and stronger. If you already orgasm regularly and are looking for a way to expand orgasmic potential, playing with edging can show you what your body is capable of experiencing. It can also be powerful for the partner providing the stimulation as, when it’s done well, it shows how much power to please we all have.

  2. Edging for education.
    Education might not sound like a sexy motivating factor, but in order to do edging well, you need to pay close attention to your partners body during sexual arousal and orgasm. The process of learning the cues about when they are near orgasm, what they look and sound like as they are ramping up to orgasm, and what they’re like as they are coming down, is a process of becoming more aware and attuned to their sexual experience. This ability to connect will enhance almost any sexual experience with them.

Friday, March 18, 2011

Where do your Breast fit? What do men Like?

The size and shape of women’s breasts is variable. Some women have small breasts, other have big breasts (large amount of breast tissue). There is no perfect shape or size for breasts.

Some factors that can influence the breast size are: age, weight, volume of breast tissue, number of pregnancies, menopause. Breasts are usually asymmetrical. This means that one breast can be different than the other; usually the left breast is a little larger than the right breast. Some breasts have inverted nipples: the nipple is retracted into the breast. It seems that 10% to 20% women have inverted nipples.

So where do you belong?
A - perfect breast shape; B - swooping breast; C, D, E - saggy breast; F - common breast; G - tubular breast; H - snoopy breast; I - pigeon chest (deformity of chest)

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Dealing with the Saggy Titty committee.......

Now I have recently joined the saggy titty committee after my son and I must say it is kind of depressing to me. Coming from the C cup family out of the ABC's purky city world; where wearing a tank without the support of a bra of any sort was a A+. Now that this has all changed I had to FINALLY accept that I am in the Saggy titty committee.

I know your probably saying what is the saggy titty committee? Well here is the simple break down of it. Once your breast hang down like it is having a conversation with your stomach is one sign you are apart of the crew. Now some may get offended, which I don't really care, but hey its the truth. As most young and sexy women who feel they are unchangeable think, this is something 80% never imagine in a million years. The others just have them naturally and can not help it. Looking at my time line of women in my family and knowing I wanted kids I stuck in my head, my day will come. However that didn't make me feel less sexy of myself. Now that it is here I have to do what pleases me best. Please understand that different women have different breast types and surgery should not be an option unless you have back issues. Letting your saggy twins give you a headache and lead to depression, do natural things that can help support those twins. "Sagging" breasts might just be healthy and perfect breasts that just need a little support to look and feel their best. That's just as normal and healthy as women with tiny breasts.

Yes you may have to spend a little more on bra's and go searching for the right one. But just like shoes, jeans and blouses trying it on and knowing your size helps the situation so much better. I have seen numerous of women who went from saggy to sexy just because of that right bra. Stop worrying about what man thinks when the breast starts that convo with your belly. Once your vijayjay is giving him the time of his life, trust me when I say he will flop that bad boy right in his mouth. Men don't care at the end of the day, some do but we don't care, because most of those guys are blah anyway!

What can I do about my sagging breasts?

Don't compare yourself to models. Women tend to compare themselves to what they see in the media. Forget what you see on models; many of those women have had plastic surgery or air brushing. That's not the norm.

Wear supportive bras. The best way to look your best and protect the tissue of your breasts is to wear bras.

Have yourself properly fitted. Many women do not wear the correct bra, and end up with a bra that does not do its job. So have yourself measured and consulted by a professional. They stores normally have a person there to measure for you

Choose bras with a wide back strap. The wider the back strap the more support you get in front. This may include bras with 3-6 hooks. You may like the look of the lacy bra with the one hook closure in the back but it won't support larger breasts. Fortunately, colorful, lacy, cute, and/or sexy supportive bras can be now be found in even the largest sizes.

Put on Your Bra Correctly Take a little care getting dressed. Be sure your straps are adjusted to your back. They tend to move around during laundering.(handwash bras, or use a laundering bag) Lean over when putting on your bra to ensure your chest is centered and perky. Make sure the middle of the bra is centered.

Look for the mid-point on your arm and your nipple line should be level with that middle area of your arm. If it is too low you aren't getting enough support.

Consult your physician. He or she might have some ideas that can help, or reassure you that you are perfectly normal. Remember, doctors know about this stuff!

Join a weight loss plan. Many women tend to gain weight in their chest.

Avoid "Yo-yo Dieting". Repeated weight gain and loss can stretch out your breast tissue. This can lead to your breasts getting saggy.

Avoid going bra-less! Gravity will cause your breast to sag more and more. Going without a bra will further stretch the breast tissue.

These are just a few tips to help you and your self esteem! A great self esteem helps a great sex life!

Wednesday, March 16, 2011

**NEW** Love Bunnies

Breaking into the exotic pleasure world? Then this new inexpensive bunny will do the trick. Vibrators don't get any cuter than the Love Bunnies. I have not experience this little pal as yet, but one thing I can say is those bunny ears work a miricle when it comes to clitoris pleasure. This water-proof silicone vibe is just as functional as it is adorable: the fluttering ears surround the clit for a light tickle, or nuzzle any other surface of the bunny against your clit, labia, balls, or perineum for added stimulation. When you're ready to clean up, just remove the three-speed vibrator (it slides out easily), and you can boil the rest of it for disinfection. The replaceable watch batteries provide up to 80 minutes of vibration (depending on speed used). For you beginners this amount of speed is perfect for you!