The size and shape of women’s breasts is variable. Some women have small breasts, other have big breasts (large amount of breast tissue). There is no perfect shape or size for breasts.

Some factors that can influence the breast size are: age, weight, volume of breast tissue, number of pregnancies, menopause. Breasts are usually asymmetrical. This means that one breast can be different than the other; usually the left breast is a little larger than the right breast. Some breasts have inverted nipples: the nipple is retracted into the breast. It seems that 10% to 20% women have inverted nipples.

So where do you belong?
A - perfect breast shape; B - swooping breast; C, D, E - saggy breast; F - common breast; G - tubular breast; H - snoopy breast; I - pigeon chest (deformity of chest)

Now I have recently joined the saggy titty committee after my son and I must say it is kind of depressing to me. Coming from the C cup family out of the ABC's purky city world; where wearing a tank without the support of a bra of any sort was a A+. Now that this has all changed I had to FINALLY accept that I am in the Saggy titty committee.

I know your probably saying what is the saggy titty committee? Well here is the simple break down of it. Once your breast hang down like it is having a conversation with your stomach is one sign you are apart of the crew. Now some may get offended, which I don't really care, but hey its the truth. As most young and sexy women who feel they are unchangeable think, this is something 80% never imagine in a million years. The others just have them naturally and can not help it. Looking at my time line of women in my family and knowing I wanted kids I stuck in my head, my day will come. However that didn't make me feel less sexy of myself. Now that it is here I have to do what pleases me best. Please understand that different women have different breast types and surgery should not be an option unless you have back issues. Letting your saggy twins give you a headache and lead to depression, do natural things that can help support those twins. "Sagging" breasts might just be healthy and perfect breasts that just need a little support to look and feel their best. That's just as normal and healthy as women with tiny breasts.

Yes you may have to spend a little more on bra's and go searching for the right one. But just like shoes, jeans and blouses trying it on and knowing your size helps the situation so much better. I have seen numerous of women who went from saggy to sexy just because of that right bra. Stop worrying about what man thinks when the breast starts that convo with your belly. Once your vijayjay is giving him the time of his life, trust me when I say he will flop that bad boy right in his mouth. Men don't care at the end of the day, some do but we don't care, because most of those guys are blah anyway!

What can I do about my sagging breasts?

Don't compare yourself to models. Women tend to compare themselves to what they see in the media. Forget what you see on models; many of those women have had plastic surgery or air brushing. That's not the norm.

Wear supportive bras. The best way to look your best and protect the tissue of your breasts is to wear bras.

Have yourself properly fitted. Many women do not wear the correct bra, and end up with a bra that does not do its job. So have yourself measured and consulted by a professional. They stores normally have a person there to measure for you

Choose bras with a wide back strap. The wider the back strap the more support you get in front. This may include bras with 3-6 hooks. You may like the look of the lacy bra with the one hook closure in the back but it won't support larger breasts. Fortunately, colorful, lacy, cute, and/or sexy supportive bras can be now be found in even the largest sizes.

Put on Your Bra Correctly Take a little care getting dressed. Be sure your straps are adjusted to your back. They tend to move around during laundering.(handwash bras, or use a laundering bag) Lean over when putting on your bra to ensure your chest is centered and perky. Make sure the middle of the bra is centered.

Look for the mid-point on your arm and your nipple line should be level with that middle area of your arm. If it is too low you aren't getting enough support.

Consult your physician. He or she might have some ideas that can help, or reassure you that you are perfectly normal. Remember, doctors know about this stuff!

Join a weight loss plan. Many women tend to gain weight in their chest.

Avoid "Yo-yo Dieting". Repeated weight gain and loss can stretch out your breast tissue. This can lead to your breasts getting saggy.

Avoid going bra-less! Gravity will cause your breast to sag more and more. Going without a bra will further stretch the breast tissue.

These are just a few tips to help you and your self esteem! A great self esteem helps a great sex life!

Breaking into the exotic pleasure world? Then this new inexpensive bunny will do the trick. Vibrators don't get any cuter than the Love Bunnies. I have not experience this little pal as yet, but one thing I can say is those bunny ears work a miricle when it comes to clitoris pleasure. This water-proof silicone vibe is just as functional as it is adorable: the fluttering ears surround the clit for a light tickle, or nuzzle any other surface of the bunny against your clit, labia, balls, or perineum for added stimulation. When you're ready to clean up, just remove the three-speed vibrator (it slides out easily), and you can boil the rest of it for disinfection. The replaceable watch batteries provide up to 80 minutes of vibration (depending on speed used). For you beginners this amount of speed is perfect for you!

Now I am as soft as a butterfly so rough sex is not in my vocab, unless I am under the influence of alcohol. Being a undercover freak that I am I came across this interesting sex object. I call it an object, because in shape or form can this be a toy!

From U.S. porn producer Fucking Machines comes a slowly rotating chain-saw with gently stroking rubber tongues. The machines are not on sale as they should not be, but are used on the site to demonstrate some real hard core sex for women. So to all you women that love to get the shit fucked out of them on a 24 hours bases. Here is something new for you and for the men that love fetish type freaky shit. This object looks crazy and may make a chick head pop off depending on speed. Now I warn you the site is VERY to the point and may seem nasty to you, but remember what your sex preference is, may not be the same as the other. So do yourself a favor if your judgmental do not log on!

Question is would you try it?

SweetHeat Miami was an idea birthed from the mind of DJ Dimples. She had longed to throw an event that encompassed what she believed to be the ultimate party getaway…a Utopia on Earth if you will. After years of deejaying other parties and events across South Florida and the United States, she dreamed of starting her own weekend that celebrated the beauty that is gay, lesbian, bisexual and transgender women.

Dimples knew this task would not be easy so she spent much of 2007 planning what would be SweetHeat Miami’s inaugural events. Since a large part of her DJ career was spent in clubs on South Beach, she decided to make it the epicenter for the weekend’s events. She allied with clubs and people that she had established relationships with and soon her dreams were realized on May 15-18, 2008.

That weekend, SweetHeat Miami welcomed more than 1,000 ladies from across the United Stated who, like Dimples, weren’t prepared for how great a time was had. It goes to show that a bright sun, a sandy beach and a beautiful bikini can’t be denied. If you didn’t believe Cindi Lauper when she sang “Girl’s just want to have fun..” you did that weekend.

In 2009, expectations were surpassed as over 8,000 ladies filled the streets of South Beach to experience what some had gotten a taste of the year before. To say the least, the venues were packed and celebrity guests were excited to participate after hearing word of its success the year prior.

Ultimately, SweetHeat Miami is unique in that it is the ONLY continuous party on South Beach catering to African-American and Hispanic LGBT women. The atmosphere since its start has always been one of celebration, appreciation and acceptance of whom and what these women represent both in their personal lives and as a community. SweetHeat prides itself on booking talent from within LGBT community whether it’s the DJs or performers. They also pride themselves in working with special guests, hotels and venues that are LGBT friendly.

May 12-15, 2011 will mark SweetHeat’s fourth and most anticipated weekend of events.

This is one event that I sure do not want to miss! Log onto www.sweetheatmiami.net for more info!

Latest Japanese fetish wear craze. Now I do not knock people's fetishes, but this is WAY better then a man or women trying to have sex with real living animal's. I really don’t know what else to say, but check it out…here:

The Sexy Black Sheep shows how much people love black people

Pink Cow

F*cking Poodles

Avoid lubes with sugar, colorings and flavors in them. Glycerin/glycerol is a sugar — read the lube’s ingredients, because yes Virginia, Astroglide contains sugar. Sugar feeds yeast: think about it. I did every time when I was young and I used whip cream, a real tasteful lube or Ice Cream...A few days later my poor pums is screaming from agony.

• So that means no whipped cream, chocolate or pums sundaes, either. Sugar caution also applies to well-meaning lovers who go down on you with a cough drop or mint in her/his mouth.

• Don’t get oil in there either — oils are difficult to flush out of the vagina, though silicone lubes are fine try to use pussy friendly water-based lubes. (silicone is one brand recently tested and passed FDA regulations for safety).

• Always pee after sex, even if it’s sex with yourself. If you have frequent bladder infections, this might be your solution. This is also good if you have a little slip up (with ejaculation). Now I am not saying it will stop pregnancy, but this can help stop irritation especially if that guy ate something that did not agree with you.

• Avoid harsh soaps with intense scent or a high pH, like Ivory and ‘deodorant’ soaps. Use glycerin soaps if you think the soap might be a factor. If you are sensitive stay away from fancy fragrance soaps. Even if you are not sensitive try to switch it up so you don't get any irritation in the long run. Dove for sensitive pums is the best...still has a great scent, but wont cause irritation.

• Don’t douche. Just don’t. Douching kills all the good flora and fauna that keeps your pussy healthy.

• Drink plenty of water. Ever drink lots of coffee and no water and have your pee sting? That’s your urethra (G-spot area) getting irritated and pleading for water.

• Is your lover touching your pussy with clean hands? Don’t ever be afraid to have them use a glove or ask them to wash their hands. Shit I don't I am married and still ask my husband if he washed his hands! WHY if he/she didn't that can cause some nasty ass yeast infections, which makes you don't wanna have sex again. In my case it did so being afraid of asking a person to wash up only saves you in the long wrong.
  

• Never go from back door to front (anus to vagina). This is something every women should know from potty training days. If you didn't start doing it from now. The bacteria from the anus can cause yeast infections.

• What’s your sex toy made of? Try to use silicone sex toys (or metal, glass or Pyrex), or cover your toy with a condom. Keep condoms handy so you don’t have to hassle with washing a toy when you don’t want to get out of bed. But remember too once you do ESPECIALLY if you have a water falls pussy.

• If you’ve been using a jelly toy with no irritation but suddenly start experiencing irritation, time for a new toy (or start using it with a condom). Jelly toys are porous and can retain bacteria even after washing.

Vibrator Materials

For those people who spend a life time using and adventuring with dildo's, be sure you play safe. Dildo's are not recommended for everyday, 24/7 use because of material so play it safe. Even though some are better then others, just like drugs the effects can cause damage differently. So take the time and read the material that can be in your toys. We are not saying that the pleasure stops, but I recommend that you use them for fun and not everyday pleasure.

Silicone

The only disadvantage of silicone toys is their price. They are a bit more expensive than their "brothers and sisters" made of other materials as they are hand made. Nevertheless don't hesitate to purchase one as it will last much longer than other adult toys.

Elastomer

	Elastomer is phthalate-free material which guarantees lack of chemical softeners in sex toys made out of it. Due to their porous texture, it is recommended to use condoms while sharing them, as it is hard to sterilize such toys.

Jelly Rubber

For all the amateurs of soft and smooth materials, allow us to introduce the Jelly Rubber material. Adult toys made of Jelly Rubber are cheaper than other toys and the basic argument for that is their shorter "life". Unlike Elastomer, Jelly Rubber contain phthalate, hence it's better to play with a condom on them.

Silicone/Rubber Mixes

Many sex toy manufacturers speculate on the law that says: "A sex product has to be only composed of 10% of a material to be called that material" and insert "Silicone" in product's name, most popular material among consumers, although it's a mixture of materials. I strongly recommend you pay more attention on toy's ingredients before buying it. Although these toys take the lifespan of silicone toys, they also inherit the features of rubber toys and should be treated as such.

Cyberskin

If what you are looking for is something that totally resembles real genitals, then Cyberskin (convertible terms: Futurotic™, Jel-Lee®, UR3®, Soft Touch™, New Supersoft, Futurotic plus™, SoftSkins®) sex toys are our recommendation. This is the most lifelike material of all available on the market. They cost less than silicone toys, that is due to their porous texture that is hard to disinfect. Some of these them may also have phthalate in the list of ingredients, hence be sure you are using them with a condom.

Hard Materials

In the list of hard materials we include glass, metal, latex, plastic and acrylic sex toys. All of them are smooth and what's more important phthalate-free. Prices for such "delights" vary depending on the material.