Having patience for a man trying is different from having patience fora man making excuses.
A man should never have to think twice about what he wants to do for you. If he wants too he will. If your the one he will go out his way, not make excuses. It can take a while, but he will do and change things to build up that trust to show you, your the one he wants. This is not to say you should accept certain behavior. However when you point it out he would do his best to try to change it genuinely without losing himself.
Having patience for a man trying is different from having patience for a man making excuses. Those excuses wear out at some point and then what happens? She starts to feel unhappy, unwanted and unloved. First she expresses (which they call nagging). Then one or the other gets tired. Ladies a man who wants and needs you will not put you through something that is heartbreaking. If it's the same issue that arises then sweetheart you are not the one he wants to change for. Know the difference between excuses and a man wanting to change to be with you. Love don't make excuses, love make changes.
So men pay attention.....the woman who bend over backwards for you...the woman that ask for nothing deserves more than just a little something. Get creative! Simple moments can be the best special moment to her. Stop repeating what you can do and do it. Becoming a skipping record becomes a woman's pet peeve. Pay attention to what she likes...can't figure it out, ask questions or talk to others close to her. Have you been doing and it's not enough? Communicate it by talking not demanding. Still can't make her smile??? Then maybe she's just not happy with you, herself or she just does not know what she wants.
What you don't do is cheat!! Falling back may or may not help, but no one....not even a man should feel unappreciated. However still be that man and make your woman feel like that woman. That's 99% of what she needs!!! Just my thought.
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