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Having patience for a man trying is different from having patience fora man making excuses.
A man should never have to think twice about what he wants to do for you. If he wants too he will. If your the one he will go out his way, not make excuses. It can take a while, but he will do and change things to build up that trust to show you, your the one he wants. This is not to say you should accept certain behavior. However when you point it out he would do his best to try to change it genuinely without losing himself.
Having patience for a man trying is different from having patience for a man making excuses. Those excuses wear out at some point and then what happens? She starts to feel unhappy, unwanted and unloved. First she expresses (which they call nagging). Then one or the other gets tired. Ladies a man who wants and needs you will not put you through something that is heartbreaking. If it's the same issue that arises then sweetheart you are not the one he wants to change for. Know the difference between excuses and a man wanting to change to be with you. Love don't make excuses, love make changes.
So men pay attention.....the woman who bend over backwards for you...the woman that ask for nothing deserves more than just a little something. Get creative! Simple moments can be the best special moment to her. Stop repeating what you can do and do it. Becoming a skipping record becomes a woman's pet peeve. Pay attention to what she likes...can't figure it out, ask questions or talk to others close to her. Have you been doing and it's not enough? Communicate it by talking not demanding. Still can't make her smile??? Then maybe she's just not happy with you, herself or she just does not know what she wants.
What you don't do is cheat!! Falling back may or may not help, but no one....not even a man should feel unappreciated. However still be that man and make your woman feel like that woman. That's 99% of what she needs!!! Just my thought.
The secret to make his toes curl
Recently the curl experience took place in a moment when I just
wanted to give head! That’s the first key to suck-cessful head. If your
not into sucking dick the curl affect will not happen for you! You must
want to do it!
Most men are different. Some like you to deep throat, some like the
tip to be sucked only, some like the dick and balls talent, some like
the balls to be sucked, some like you to caress the balls while sucking,
some like when you suck and twist (using both hands), some just like to
see the gag reflex, some like to hear that slobbing, spitting and
sucking sound, some like you to lick the Penile (will get to that) and
then some just like it all!
Third tip don’t over kill the toe curler trick. Make him want it and yearn for it. Be gentle up till he is hard as a rock and your ready to feel all of the dick in your vagina. Always switch it up if you want to be a good head queen! Buy some flavor lube, be spontaneous and suck him random places. Nothing beats a quickie from a nice stiff dick.
A Letter To My Father......A Must see site from Via @missjia
My dad was a man dedicated to his music and though he loved me, his love was not the kind of love you expect from a father. When he was there, he was there and did EVERYTHING for me. I was his baby girl. I got the gifts, toys and more toys when he was missing. At that time it was “to me” good, because as a little girl who didn't want all the barbies, dolls and doll houses? As I got older I started to ask why and when till I started to sound like a broken record. Why can't I come this weekend or why can't you see me this weekend. It was too the point I didn't care for the gifts, I just wanted to see my "Daddy!" I called, chased and basically drained my mother just to see my daddy. All his promises where either broken or came true by my brother who I lost in 1996. When boys got involved that urge little by little left from my dad, to the ones I dated. To make it worse I had this weight on my chest from loss of the other man I felt loved me more than my father himself, so scared was an under estimate. Could I express this then to my mom? No because she was busy taking care of 3 kids. So as a teen I had to figure out a lot about boys via friends and my own personal experiences.
I can go on and on, but since I FINALLY found peace by expressing this to both my mom and dad. I found peace with my past as a child and my past 3 heart breaks. Not to mention the men I treated like shit because I was so angry, but used the "Ms. Independent" theory as a cover up. To me any women who have issues and holding on to some demons should find a way to talk about it. Luckily I become an overly outspoken person, however not all women have that courage or urge to tell anyone or their parents, especially their father. I still struggle I won't lie, but I sure do pray and try daily. So to me A Letter to My Father is a great start. This is not only for bad experiences but good. Though I had issues with my dad we are very close, once again I was his baby girl till this day. He being a father was my issue, because he ALWAYS treated me like I was a friend. I never got it till I became a woman I was lucky to rebuild our friendship and got to see and understand why he was who "HE" was. I say was, because he did change and he changed A LOT!!! Feels weird but I am happy to see that people can change for the good. A lot of women do have great relationships with their dads; however a lot struggle from some issue caused by their dad.
This post isn’t about Love or Sex, but because a lot of women who seek fatherly love or resent men because of a missing father....I felt like sharing this site with you.
