Tuesday, January 27, 2015

Dear Ladies, Stop thinking holding back sex from your man is a method to get him to do what you want him to do.

 
No honey all your making him want to do is go out and cheat on you.  Find someone to satisfy his needs since you playing games.  There are too many single women out here that your man can fake feelings for to get sex and come back to you, fuck you when you ready and have no remorse for his actions.  The dangerous part is when he finds someone who he can't resist and want to keep around because, he fell for her and can see more then he can with you.  That's where the problem begins.  Here you are in he little girl chase the pussy game, while your man out catching feelings for someone else. 

You mad that's cool, NEVER leave a window open for a butterfly to fly in and sweep your man off his feet.  Men fuck up that's what they do, however sometimes you have to look at yourself.  ESPECIALLY if he a good man, you won't allow to be one.  There is no one to blame but yourself.  Now you got to deal with him knowing he want someone else and whatever that person did that you didn't and can never compare too. 

I met a dumb chick the other day, whose man fell for someone else, which sparked this blog.  Sorry to call the women dumb, but this problem seems to be annoying and getting worse.  She said, "I don't play, let him play I won't give him none. I won't do this, I won't do that.  I will do this, I will do that."  She also goes on to say alllllllllllllllllll the things she does to make him pay, just because he a man, she won't allow to be a man.  I just listened to her dumb ass, because I am like that's not your man that's your pet you trained and just because he missed behaved you hold back.....don't feed him!!  Then get mad when he does what a man, who don't feel like a man do or get mad at the women he now can't get out of his system.  Be mad at yourself.  Playing games you think you winning, but in reality you losing, because you now have to burden the no trust factor.  Which a lot of women create in their own relationship.  Most of these women to me are dumb as hell.  I can say this because I was one of them.  I never held back sex, but I did things to not make him feel like he was not a man. I mean let's face it he was not a man.  I wouldn't allow him to grow on his own.  By doing this I should of been let him go but, I felt like I did all this why let go now.  This is when a man know he can fuck up, why because he know your ass won't and will never go anywhere.  When they know they have multiple chances with you with no fear of losing you, he will take each and every chance.  So again some women add to this epidemic of men doing them.  Which will never change because, you will forever take back what no other women will deal with. 

These type of women are NOT ride or dies or real MVP's. They are desperate and in need of help.  These are those women who try to please the eye of others faking like their relationship is golden, when they helped it fail in the first place.  They cause their own trust issues and headache by wanting things to go their way and not accepting that no man is perfect.

No sex is not the answer.  Get a Clue.

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