So recently Lolo Jones The U.S. Olympian Slams Fifty Shades of Grey stating, "God Didn't Create Sex For That Purpose!" According to MSN Entertainment News The U.S. Olympian and famous virgin told her Twitter followers on Tuesday to skip the kinky box office hit. Jones wrote, “Funny how some people think there’s nothing wrong with 50 shades of Grey. God didn’t create sex for that purpose. Watch another movie.” The star athlete added, “Some ppl medicate pain by being more and more physical to where if they are ever alone they can’t feel any peace.” Jones seems to be suggesting that BDSM (bondage, dominance and submissive) sex is used mostly to cover up deeper pain.

Now I would not say that people that enjoy this type of Sex are covering pain, everyone likes and enjoys sex differently. Don't get me wrong yes a lot of people use sex to cover up pain, till they are ready to deal with it. However that's just how some people deal with pain. Just like some take drugs, some do high Adrenaline Rush activity, some get crazy and take it out on others. I mean there is a list of things people do that god do not agree with when it comes to dealing with hurt and pain. So for her to pass judgement being a VIRGIN is a "Sit your ass down," type of statement. I can say this, because when I was a virgin I thought EXACTLY like her. Made it worse I swore on everything I would not use a dildo, suck dick, do anal sex, want a threesome and the list goes on. Then the right men, yes men made me think other wise. Three famous dicks (ummmm) of mines had me thinking, tripping and wanting to do so many things. BUT I didn't go to far, because I had morels. Sad to say I didn't get open sexual till my failed marriage. I got into exploring myself sexual and knowing what I like since it seemed like my ex husband was never pleased with me. He had me thinking men from my past was lying about my little sweet pum pum (vagina). Well up till I got invites, I miss you and I miss this and that when they seen trouble in "paradise." Crazy how men know and can sense it! 

At this point that's when I came to realize we all like different things.  He was freak nasty and I was passionate nasty.  Yet we could never get it to mesh together. Plus he like thick fat chicks (no shade) and at the time I was 165 pounds.  The thing is I was willing to try since we where married and I wanted to please him, however he was aggressive and jump the gun like a kid in a candy shop.   That's another reason why I love liquor so much, I had to drink hard to get to where he wanted me to be.  It worked, but this was my husband, not some man I was fucking. Things didn't change until AFTER my son was born, I gained weight and I started to feel good about me sexually.  At this point I didn't care about his wants and needs.   That's a entirely different story, but this is when I went searching for "ME!" 

Though bondage, dominance and submissive is not my kind of sex, to me there is nothing wrong with BDSM sex.  Should it be practiced with everyone and their mama, no!!  That's when you can say, "God didn't create sex for that purpose." Just like he didn't for MANY things!!  Now if its a serious relationship then BDSM sex should not be an issue for those who truly enjoy it.  When introducing things to someone you can not throw it on them, you have to take baby steps, which to me is how it played out in Fifty Shades of Grey.  The girl was willing and he taught her.  Now if it's something that a person is not into, then that's when problems arise.  

Kudos to 50 shades of Grey which earned well over $90 million at the domestic box office during the long holiday weekend.  We see sex in SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO many different ways, I am glad to see it be shown at another level other than on porn sites or the simple all passionate sex. Others enjoy sex in many different ways, 90 millions dollars worth to be clear.   It's a person human nature to explore sexually, HOWEVER kudos to those that do and try it in the right way. Gods way and when you get their you will know it.  People who judge, how godly are you judging others???? HUMMMMMMMMMMM!!

xoxo
The Passionista