Friday, June 20, 2014

It's FRIDAY Food for thought when out this Weekend

Just because I laugh, chat and flirt does not mean I want to fuck. Maybe I am feeling you or maybe I am just a little happy with my life that I love to laugh, smile or have fun. Every time a woman does this a man automatically feels like its an invite to spit his game. I mean don’t get me wrong you can’t knock a dude for trying, but sometimes you need to know when to stop. 

If a woman tells you she’s has a boyfriend or married, respect that shit! She does only see one dick 24/7, so yeah she may laugh and giggle a little. If you ask and you get the “No I’m married” card, stop at this point there is no need to ask if she needs a friend. No she does not need a fuck buddy. Now if she continues and wants to exchange info then that’s an entire different situation. Which I will not get into today!!! 

Now ladies you need to be careful when giggling and laughing with every man you come across. You should have self control especially if liquor is involved. A lot of woman tend to flirt and tease a man, which can lead to something called “rape.” You got to remember men and woman think totally different. While your thinking you living and having fun, he thinking imma fuck the shit out of her. So avoid the situation if you know you don’t want this man or want to fuck this man. Some men may just be rapist period and this is something you have to be aware of. 

Know the signs men, like I said not every woman wants you just because she flashed a smile. Think twice, think hard and evaluate the signs. 

A little tease from thee
The Passionista

Thursday, June 19, 2014

The right Melody to her Heart


Play every key softly and slowly, as you can see she has been broken.  Though she has been fixed, she has to be played in another unique way! The melody she needs are simple if you play the right note.  Yeah you may not know how to play it, but with time and a few lessons every stroke you play can rub her the right way.  The more gentle you are with the key to her heart the more she will treat you like a king and even let you in.

If your unsure how to play the right melody to her heart the best thing you can do is walk away! If you try that's cool, but do not think because you figured out how to play one song you could just play it all along.   Ever song grows old at some point and time.  So if you know you can't or won't try to play a new melody.  Don't start just to put her aside in a box so she can collect dust. Let her go and let someone else play the right melody to her heart!!!

QUESTION OF THE DAY: How big is too big?

Once upon of time my ass would swear to the dick gods for a BIG DICK!  First off people who never even fucked should never ever cry about dick size, because truly your little vajayjay can’t manage a big dick. Now once you start taking dick, I always think woman should enjoy and explore. Now explore don’t mean fucking everything you see, explore means don’t fall in love and wanting to marry that dick that got you sprung.  Now my first dick is still of my top 3 favorites and it will never die, he was medium.  Now my top 3 worst included the biggest dick of my life x 2!!

 Ok so this was in my hoeish, fuck a nigga faze after a HORRIBLE break up so don’t judge me (though I don’t give two shits, I’m just saying).  Now the first XXL Magnum was a waste! He had a HUGH dick and had no damn clue what to do with it.  Big dick, fine ass man but first pussy attitude.   I don’t know if it was; because he wanted it so bad he got confused or maybe pussy never came from someone so fine (lmao)!! I will forever believe in my mind, he just wanted it so bad since we knew each other for a while.  He was literally 9+, non-human I rather say! It took a nap and some convo to get it in.  Then it took some teaching of in-out techniques, because this mofo had no rhythm.  Then he wanted to get fancy and that is when I knew that big dick and I were not going to be friends.  I didn’t enjoy any position, absolutely NONE!  On top of all that, my vaja was in pain for a minute and not in a good way.

 My second big dick was more of a hell no what is that!  It was big, fat and black.  It looked like it should be framed and put into a dick hall of fame for big dicks, dipped in gold.  This was more emotional, because he knew he had a big dick. Though he looked so good, he could never keep a girl around.  I say girl, because at that time I was a girl growing into a woman.  If I was who I am now, I would have made that shit work, because he was a good man.  During our adventure he couldn’t even get in the tip, I mean it hurt to try.  KY didn’t work; neither did that bomb ass head.  I was so devastated, because he was so passionate.  His own down fall was most women’s dream, his dick.

 So to answer the question, well you really can’t it’s what you can handle or what you prefer.  My scary ass defiantly cannot manage a big XXL off the chart dick 7,8 is just fine, but I know numerous of woman that can manage 9+!  So woman need to just stop with the big dick talk and start with I need a dick just my size.

Yours truly,

The Passionista

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Give your Vaja a Panty break….Sunday June 22 is No Panty Day

If your like me, I use more than one day a month or even a year for No Panties.  Sometimes your kitty really needs to purrrrr and take a breather. Taking a bath or a shower sometimes is just not good enough. Your vaja needs to feel free, get space and spread freely. Dick should not be the only way your she spreads. If your like me, I hate wearing anything tight when I am asleep. So if its not my granny panties then its defiantly no panties. The best time for no panties is after you shave! You should give your pours a break and not suffocate them after taking away all that hair. The best thing to do is spread eagle and pray a nice fat tongue lands right in it! (**NOTE** oral sex after shaving is not good, since your pours are open and are at risk of any infection.  Just because you don't see or feel anything, trust your pours are open.  This is why your vaja should not be completely nude.  I won't know no one, but its not good.)

 Take this as a tip and give your vaja a breathing session at least 3 times a week.

 WARNING: If you have rats, roaches, ants or any weird bugs, panties before bed is best for you. You do not want to wake up with anything in your ovaries unless its sperm.

 ~ My thoughts, my vision, my prerogative!!

 Mysteria
The Passionista