Monday, July 14, 2014

Music Mondays - The Panties Mos Def

 
"Baby slow down, just take your time
You and me goin' be here for a while
Okay
Baby don't rush this, take your time
You and me goin' be here for a while
Okay
I got so much that I want to do
I just want to be close to you
Okay
I got so much that I want to do
That I can show you better than I can say
I don't wanna be no where but here
No where in this atmosphere
Stratosphere, ionosphere
Ain't no sphere that's bright like here
I don't wanna be no where but here
No where in this atmosphere
I'm good where I am" - Mos Def 

There is something about Mos Def that can make any panties come off.  His words go deeper than a stiff one on a regular day.  One of my favorite songs on this album "The New Danger". 

Thursday, July 10, 2014

5 Reason I LOVE Lubes and Praise Them

  • Keeps the Pussy Moisten for All- Night Sexcapdes - Yes most women can stay wet, but this keeps that moist feeling alive no matter how much he beats that pussy up. 
     
  • Comfortable for Guys - Sometimes women think tight pussy is always good.  Yes it is, but if it’s tight and not wet enough that can cause a man some serious pain.  Lubing it up before he sticks his love tree in your pussy soil is wise; ESPECIALLY if he is hung like a horse dick.  Condoms can also really dry you out so lube helps prevent that.  If he wears a condom, it will help him a lot as well.  Too much lube with the condom can be bad if she already wet, because it can slip off.  So don’t get too excited and use too much.
  • Extend the Pleasure - Some Lubes are made to extend the experience.  Some Lubes can make the make him so stiff, you would think he popped a Viagra.  Others can help stimulate the G-Spot and the Clit to help with that mind blowing orgasm. 
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  • “Flavored lubes can make oral sex much more fun, and are safer than using whipped cream or honey, which can cause infection.” –Charlie Glickman, Ph.D. THIS IS A FACT!!!  I use to LOVVEEEEE using whip cream, honey and chocolate to spice shit up, but after a MEAN bacterial infection I stayed away.  Flavored lubes do not blend with everyone’s body, so before buying try testers to find the right flavor.
  • Anal Lubes - Are the best because it avoids any tearing.  Since your ass is made for things to come out, sticking a dick in can do A LOT of damage.  Anal lube helps release tension and helps the dick to SLOWLY ease in.  I mean you have to relax as well, but the anal lube is defiantly a PLUS.
"One surprising benefit of a bit of lubrication? It can prevent infections. Friction from lube-less sex causes heat which encourages bacterial growth; so the less friction (and the more lube!) the better." –Mikaya, 43  

I am NOT too sure about this, but makes a little sense.  I won’t suggest you start using NO condom because this is not a FACT!!  With all that being said be sure to use WATER BASED LUBES…..

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QOTD: Sex toys are not meant to Replace.

Weird Question of the Day: 
So why you like sex toys, your man not pleasing you right? 

Now first off Sex toys can not fully substitute what's missing at home. If things are OK or just plain old bad no toy can change or fix it! That's any relationship period. Committed or not committed. Sex toys can't save something broken. You can have a case full, but if y'all as a couple are not working a toy and good sex will only extend something already bad! It also cant stop a person from cheating what so ever AND that's another topic.

A lot of people get the entire concept of bring toys in the bedroom all wrong. Men go on a ego trip of replacement and women think it's a take over.  When honestly it's neither.  A sex toy is for excitement...something new! 

Men.....look at it like this, if she wants you to fuck her with her dildo ain't nothing wrong with that.  Do a little foreplay, make her yearn for the real dick. Tease her clit, slide it in an out, make her run like a water falls! Be gentle because by the time you ready to slide in, she going to want you to give it to her good.  Fuck her good, feel all that passion. A toy can't do that??!!!!! 

Once you lay it down she ain't going to dream about the damn dildo, she going to dream about you.  Matter a fact she will be so happy you did something new, getting some can be easier. Women love adventure. So give it too her. If it's only your dick she sees, so a toy won't hurt. It's better than another dick that can give her more then some good dick. At least with a toy there is no emotions, passion or kissing involved that's YOUR job.  

A little tip for couples: do not go with a vibrator, those are the trouble makers in my eyes! WHY....because after all that foreplay by the time you want to put your dick in she will still be feeling the buzz.  So the strokes your giving her will not only be annoying, but it can also be unsatisfying.  If you do use a buzzer be sure to slap that tongue in her vaja to mellow out that buzz.  Don't go hard, be gentle, then slowly push in all your love.  If you don't eat (oral sex), don't use the buzz (dildo) period. 

To answer the question, a man can fuck or make love to a woman so good and she can still get bored! His dick can have a crown on it, but that crown can fall off at times.  Some lube, a game or a toy can help something that is already good.  Yeah you may not need it, but change is good.  So no it is not about me NOT getting  pleased, it's all about something new, being adventurist and NOT getting bored! Women get bored too, even loyal ones. 

(Side not this entire blog post has nothing to do with men neglecting their women sexually! That's an entirely different blog post.)

Tuesday, July 8, 2014 in , , , , , , ,

Based on the best-selling novel by Zane, "Addicted" Coming October 14, 2014

Plot Summary: Based on the best-selling novel by Zane, "Addicted" is a sexy and provocative thriller about desire and the dangers of indiscretion. Successful business woman Zoe Reynard (Sharon Leal) appears to have attained it all – the dream husband she loves (Boris Kodjoe), two wonderful children and a flourishing career. As perfect as everything appears from the outside, Zoe is still drawn to temptations she cannot escape or resist. As she pursues a secretive life, Zoe finds herself risking it all when she heads down a perilous path she may not survive.

The cast:


Lord only knows Zane books always have me glued.  I can not wait till October 14, 2014 to see the results of this movie.  The trailer is typical you know a womaen who has it all and gets tempted for many reasons, which we won't know the reasons in this till October 14, 2014.  Seems some what close to Tyler Perry's "Temptation," but from a different angle.  

We ALWAYS see movies with men being the cheaters, so its always interesting to see it from a women's perspective of why they cheat.  Down fall a lot of men already think women are the better cheaters (which sorry to say they are), so movies like this make it harder for men to trust in my opinion.  It's already like pulling a damn wisdom tooth for them to love you, yet alone to get them to think you ain't and won't cheat. 

**SIGH** the struggle ESPECIALLY in this day and age.  I will be front row with my popcorn just to see how it all lays out.