No honey all your making him want to do is go out and cheat on you.  Find someone to satisfy his needs since you playing games.  There are too many single women out here that your man can fake feelings for to get sex and come back to you, fuck you when you ready and have no remorse for his actions.  The dangerous part is when he finds someone who he can't resist and want to keep around because, he fell for her and can see more then he can with you.  That's where the problem begins.  Here you are in he little girl chase the pussy game, while your man out catching feelings for someone else. 

You mad that's cool, NEVER leave a window open for a butterfly to fly in and sweep your man off his feet.  Men fuck up that's what they do, however sometimes you have to look at yourself.  ESPECIALLY if he a good man, you won't allow to be one.  There is no one to blame but yourself.  Now you got to deal with him knowing he want someone else and whatever that person did that you didn't and can never compare too. 

I met a dumb chick the other day, whose man fell for someone else, which sparked this blog.  Sorry to call the women dumb, but this problem seems to be annoying and getting worse.  She said, "I don't play, let him play I won't give him none. I won't do this, I won't do that.  I will do this, I will do that."  She also goes on to say alllllllllllllllllll the things she does to make him pay, just because he a man, she won't allow to be a man.  I just listened to her dumb ass, because I am like that's not your man that's your pet you trained and just because he missed behaved you hold back.....don't feed him!!  Then get mad when he does what a man, who don't feel like a man do or get mad at the women he now can't get out of his system.  Be mad at yourself.  Playing games you think you winning, but in reality you losing, because you now have to burden the no trust factor.  Which a lot of women create in their own relationship.  Most of these women to me are dumb as hell.  I can say this because I was one of them.  I never held back sex, but I did things to not make him feel like he was not a man. I mean let's face it he was not a man.  I wouldn't allow him to grow on his own.  By doing this I should of been let him go but, I felt like I did all this why let go now.  This is when a man know he can fuck up, why because he know your ass won't and will never go anywhere.  When they know they have multiple chances with you with no fear of losing you, he will take each and every chance.  So again some women add to this epidemic of men doing them.  Which will never change because, you will forever take back what no other women will deal with. 

These type of women are NOT ride or dies or real MVP's. They are desperate and in need of help.  These are those women who try to please the eye of others faking like their relationship is golden, when they helped it fail in the first place.  They cause their own trust issues and headache by wanting things to go their way and not accepting that no man is perfect.

No sex is not the answer.  Get a Clue.

This is the problem with most people today! Now a days people have sex and while one person is thinking it’s a relationship the other is not. Now your in a confusing situationship. Sex is a dangerous feeling that can make people assume more then they should. This is why it’s good to know exactly what you want before approaching a situation. Being up front use to work, however now a days no matter how much you keep it real one of the two will begin to catch feelings or fake them. This is why if it’s a fuck thing you should keep it that way.

If it’s a see where it can go situation, yet you know what you want DO NOT let that good sex make you forget what you deserve or what you need! Last if you start to catch feelings and you know that feeling ain’t mutual go missing. Why? Because if you tell that person you have feelings they may fake feelings! They may even just go missing for you. If they do, just shake your head and be happy they did it for you! I mean who don’t want the best sexual relationship ever? We all do, but people tend to forget good sex do not save relationships!! It only creates a situationship. Some people stay because the sex so good. Others shut down, but that’s a totally different topic!!! Basically don’t let SEX fool you into something period!

Compromising - Meeting in the middle is something most couples miss. Without compromising for things your partners likes or wants to do can be a deal breaker and bring issues.

Understanding - everyone thinks about things differently and with compromising and communication understanding comes into play. You may not agree but understanding where that person is coming from and why that person feels that way is important.

Communication - without it nothing will last. Which makes it impossible to move forward. If there is a problem talk about it. Don't create a problem and def don't make the problem any worse by assuming. Pay attention and if it's a real matter to talk about then approach it correctly.

Acceptance - you can't be with someone with out accepting them for who they are and the baggage they carry. Acceptance also means accepting mistakes without making that someone who made the mistake suffer for making them.  If you accept their mistake punishing them or trying to regulate them only means you really do not accept them.

Motivate - you can't be with someone that does not motivate you. Nothing worse then to have a person you have too baby, a person too busy talking and dreaming but never ever makes a move or a person with no motivation what so ever. Being overly motivated can cause as much issues, because this person causes you to loose money. 1, 2, 3........after a few tries changing is good but wasting money is and will cause major issues.

Putting the sizzle back into your relationship, marriage and sex life requires practicing new things! A lot of folks who have kids feel like finding chemistry is very difficult.  My thought is if you have time to cheat, that means you have time to make your marriage or relationship work.  Small things like playing games, taking walks, working out, cooking together, cleaning together or plan old chilling after the kiddies are a sleep are a few additional ways to make things happen. Couples should learn practical insights on how to add spice to their sex life! Foreplay, orgasms, and a list of sexgestions are only the beginning... Toys and exotic get always are another. 

I have learned a lot in my marriage that not only prepped me for my next, it prepped me as a women.  Yes I said next, because I am not bitter nor do I down play marriage.  However though dating now is 100 times scarier and marriage seems to be the last thing on my list.  I will do it again.  Accepting the reality of it being over was the HARDEST part.  I chose my happiness over comfort and fear.  Don't get me wrong some have problems and do EVERYTHING in their power to fix it.  Which being the one to filed for divorce I feel deep in my heart I did, but once its broken its broken.   Some try to fix it, because that's where they are most comfortable or that's all they know.  Others try because of the famous line "For the Kids!"  Nothing changes if you DO NOT have the 5 top tips above, which I learned. 

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