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Monday, June 30, 2014

Robin Look like a Man who lost his Soul on #BETAwards


Some men have pride and some obviously don't!!! Yes I learned there is two sides to every story, however it's obvious Robin side  really sucked! I mean last night on #BETAwards he looked like #Paula took his damn soul! He looked hoooorrrrriiiiibbbbllleee! That's probably what he really want back since the man looked half dead!!! He still sound good to me....even better singing from that lost soul of his!

Excuse me if I sound harsh but don't do shit, keep doing and doing then expect a women to stay! Robin ain't innocent (I got reliable sources other than TMZ) but what he didn't know is that Paula ain't as slow as her movie character! Who knows they been together so long maybe she wanted something new as well used this opportunity to go about doing it! Robin Smdh I can't even feel bad!! I do feel bad for any women he come across if Paula don't go back. He either going to compare or never ever be faithful.  He may be out here like half these dudes talking about Love is over rated or F-Love! MAYBE he will move on eventually and not do none of that! Hopefully he find peace!! Who knows!! You still my white chocolate looking half dead and all! 

Friday, June 27, 2014

Today is National HIV Testing Day...GET TESTED

To day is June 27 an it's National HIV Testing Day!!! It's better to know then not to know!!! 

Thursday, June 26, 2014

"Release the Chains" Empowerment Life Class for Women in Fredericksburg, VA

We may post about Love, Sex and Relationships, but we sure are BIG on boosting our women as much as we can for better!!Check out this seminar called "Release the Chains" happening in Virginia August 10, 2014

Release the Chains is a 4-hour empowerment and life class seminar for young women AND women ages 16 and up who are genuinely interested in coming together in an effort to uplift other women and to learn how to release the chains that are holding you captive from your potential.  No longer do you need to feel shackled, bonded or held down.  Release your worries, fears and your doubts and set yourself free!

 Turn your can'ts into CANS, and your DREAMS into PLANS!!!!

 The seminar features three key units:
POWERHOUSE SPEAKERS & COACHES to provide motivation and success stories to break through the chains that hold you back from living in your purpose.
LIFE CLASSES – to provide proven strategies and tools to achieve the success you want to have show up in your life.
OPEN FORUM & NETWORKING with powerful women to address the myths of shame, doubts and fears.

WHO IT’S FOR:
Young ladies and women ages 16 and up committed to producing results, not excuses. This is an ideal workshop for girls ages 16-25 but ALL Women are welcome because we need to do some mixing of the generations and everyone has chains to release! So any woman can benefit!
You will leave the workshop with:
    •  A clear understanding of your values and motivators
    •  A written mission and action plan for the purpose of your life
    •  A new tool for breaking through fears or doubts that hold you back
    •  Techniques and exercises that create experiential learning and interaction
    •  New connections with coaches and powerful women and an accountability partner for ongoing support
  • More info: www.AriSquires.com

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The Re-up on our Pleasure Passion Cases

So we decided to make a few changes with our case process since a lot of people wanted something different.  This time around our pleasure case prices will be based on the items you choose.  You can switch it up and add or remove, however the price still remains the same as long as the type of items in case value do not change.  
  • If the items are the same  or equals the same value as case you can switch it out. 
  • If the items equal less you will still pay the cost of case, but will receive a surprise treat to go with the items you have picked.  
  • If the items value do change more than case value, you will have to pay the additional cost.  
The case about is a great example.  This case is cost is $49.99 and it includes
  • Vibrating Nipple Clamps
  • A cock Stroker 
  • Fetish Whip, mask and rope
  • Lubes
This case was designed for her and him.  However you have one for each.  If they wanted to remove and add for something else that equaled $49.99 you could.  

 We will do our best to provide a good list for you to try and make a case that fits you best.  All our items will always be available to purchased separately and at a great price.  Since spicing things up is important our items will also change frequently.  The best or top purchases will stay on our Tasteful page.

 For more info on this personal experience feel free to contact mypassionx@gmail.com

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#SingleLife #SelfPlayPick The Triple Climax Rotating Metal Beads Duel Vibrating Rabbit


I am not a dildo fan, but weird looking monsters I can rock with. This 11inch 5.5 rotating tip is defiantly meant for a mind blowing experience.  The Triple Climax Rotating Metal Beads Duel Vibrating Rabbit is double the pleasure.  Now I did a video on My Passion X TV  on a Rabbit Vibrator that left my bed wet! I am kinda nervous what this updated Rabbit can and will do. 

First off it has metal beads that are meant  to message your inner walls. To add a plus it rotates for you! So that's a plus because that's less spinning and turning you have to do to feel those beads.  Second there is not only one pair of bunny ears there is two.  This sold me for sure.  Why? Let me tell you! Those ears are meant for the clit and with two pair that only means the other is for the anal! Now if you have been a follower you would know anal is not really my cup of tea. However beads and some stimulation...even a little vibration has me losing my damn mind.  So with this double dose of pleasure to stimulate my clit and anal is defiantly a plus.  I don't need no other reason not to try.

Our special for this will go for $49.99. Normal price $65.99
Here are a few more details!!!
- 6 speed reversible rotating beads
- Dual vibrating rabbits
- EZ controller
- Waterproof
- Phthalates free
- Materials: Shaft- TPR, Base- ABS
- Length: 11.0" overall, 5.5" Insertable

Wednesday, June 25, 2014 in , , , , , , , , ,

The secret to make his toes curl

Recently the curl experience took place in a moment when I just wanted to give head! That’s the first key to suck-cessful head. If your not into sucking dick the curl affect will not happen for you! You must want to do it! 

Most men are different. Some like you to deep throat, some like the tip to be sucked only, some like the dick and balls talent, some like the balls to be sucked, some like you to caress the balls while sucking, some like when you suck and twist (using both hands), some just like to see the gag reflex, some like to hear that slobbing, spitting and sucking sound, some like you to lick the Penile (will get to that) and then some just like it all!

The second key is to find the toe curler. In my case the Penile was the deal breaker. When I did most of the above to try and find the toe curler, I knew I hit the spot when he clinched and held his mouth to control his outburst. What is the Penile? The Penile is the spot when you flip the dick (while on your knees looking up) and lick from the balls to the tip of the dick. For some men they cum quicker and for others it leaves them hard as a rocket to blow your mind!! 

Third tip don’t over kill the toe curler trick. Make him want it and yearn for it. Be gentle up till he is hard as a rock and your ready to feel all of the dick in your vagina. Always switch it up if you want to be a good head queen! Buy some flavor lube, be spontaneous and suck him random places. Nothing beats a quickie from a nice stiff dick.

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A Letter To My Father......A Must see site from Via @missjia

http://alettertomyfather.net/
Came across this site called A Letter To My Father from the one and only MissJia.    Like me so many women struggle with relationships seeking something in a man that they never got from their father or seen from their own father.  In my case I struggle with doing all I can so that man can stay even if he was no good or just cut them off with no reason or explanation because of a broken promise.  I had no idea that this was happening until I went through this soul searching episode.  I won't totally blame myself for my marriage, because trust I did try; However if I was not so desperate for a man's love and attention or just wanting to have a family of my own.  I would have NEVER stayed in something I knew was not real.  After digging and blaming and digging some more, I come to see that I followed a trend of chasing my father with not only my husband, but with men I "Loved" period. 

My dad was a man dedicated to his music and though he loved me, his love was not the kind of love you expect from a father.  When he was there, he was there and did EVERYTHING for me.  I was his baby girl.  I got the gifts, toys and more toys when he was missing.  At that time it was “to me” good, because as a little girl who didn't want all the barbies, dolls and doll houses?  As I got older I started to ask why and when till I started to sound like a broken record.  Why can't I come this weekend or why can't you see me this weekend.  It was too the point I didn't care for the gifts, I just wanted to see my "Daddy!"  I called, chased and basically drained my mother just to see my daddy.  All his promises where either broken or came true by my brother who I lost in 1996.  When boys got involved that urge little by little left from my dad, to the ones I dated.  To make it worse I had this weight on my chest from loss of the other man I felt loved me more than my father himself, so scared was an under estimate. Could I express this then to my mom?  No because she was busy taking care of 3 kids.  So as a teen I had to figure out  a lot about boys via friends and my own personal experiences.  


I can go on and on, but since I FINALLY found peace by expressing this to both my mom and dad.  I found peace with my past as a child and my past 3 heart breaks.   Not to mention the men I treated like shit because I was so angry, but used the "Ms. Independent" theory as a cover up.   To me  any women who have issues and holding on to some demons should find a way to talk about it.  Luckily I become an overly outspoken person, however not all women have that courage or urge to tell anyone or their parents, especially their father.  I still struggle I won't lie, but I sure do pray and try daily.  So to me A Letter to My Father is a great start.  This is not only for bad experiences but good.  Though I had issues with my dad we are very close, once again I was his baby girl till this day.  He being a father was my issue, because he ALWAYS treated me like I was a friend.  I never got it till I became a woman I was lucky to rebuild our friendship and got to see and understand why he was who "HE" was.  I say was, because he did change and he changed A LOT!!!  Feels weird but I am happy to see that people can change for the good. A lot of women do have great relationships with their dads; however a lot struggle from some issue caused by their dad.

This post isn’t about Love or Sex, but because a lot of women who seek fatherly love or resent men because of a missing father....I felt like sharing this site with you.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

#PositionOfTheWeek goes to #Straddle his Saddle



Straddle the saddle is our position of the week. This position is defiantly dedicated to your stomach and other areas you never thought existed!  Now I must say this position requires a good size penis or it will not feel good inside. So really at the end of the day all you can do is try.  If you get the feeling of good pain then it's the right size.  Good pain meaning every spot he hits makes you get wetter.  If when you riding all you can say is "oh damn daddy" or "oh baby it's yours" or damn oh lord" then that's a good size.  NOW if you can't site up right, you feel like your insides or shifting or it feels like it's coming out from your chest.....then that is not a good size.  Oh, oh, oh is not ouch, ouch, ouch.  So this position defiantly is for a dick you can handle sitting up.  To be real you can have a good size, but certain positions you just can't do.  So this is why this our position of the week for you to saddle up and try!!!!

Not only did I enjoy the oh, oh, oh I enjoyed the intimacy of this position. If your feeling that person this position defiantly can build a deep connection. It's as if the body to body skin to skin really draws the two people together in a deep bond. To go deeper if you wrap your legs around him this is when the dick is introduced to your stomach officially.   The slow grinding on both parts can make you both feel something you never felt before, especially if you’re into that person.  Can you say waterfalls???  Wet is a understatement.  In this position he will be so wet from your juices flowing he would think you came multiple times.   

Now this can be all bad if one is feeling the other more or one is feeling that person and the other is not. This position can cause to real emotional confusion, because at that moment it feels real.  However as soon as it's over the real feelings come back.  It can even cause fake emotions because that feeling was so good, it leaves one to believe this is "Real!"  This is why one must know when it's only fucking, cause if not craziness happens and people get hurt.  There is a way to make Straddle the saddle a non-chemistry position.  If you stay in this position and begin to act like a mad bull everything changes.   Ride the dick till you cum and once you come turn around into the doggy style position so he can cum.  Then chuck the deuces.....ha ha ha!!! Nah I am joking I really do not want to promote that, but to avoid feelings for someone you’re not too sure is feeling you the way you do.  To be real how about you just avoid sex....IF YOU CAN!!!

Monday, June 23, 2014 in , , , , , , ,

Beautiful Mondays is what I call today!

Beautiful Mondays is what I call today! This morning I was told to listen to a song as beautiful as me called "Beautiful" by Mali Music. After really listening to lyrics all I can do is smile!!!  Check out Mali Music as he is a inspirational force needed not only in the music game, but for the many failing and losing faith in "Love!" 

Mali Is... Available Now! iTunes: smarturl.it/MaliIs?IQid=soundcloud


Friday, June 20, 2014

It's FRIDAY Food for thought when out this Weekend

Just because I laugh, chat and flirt does not mean I want to fuck. Maybe I am feeling you or maybe I am just a little happy with my life that I love to laugh, smile or have fun. Every time a woman does this a man automatically feels like its an invite to spit his game. I mean don’t get me wrong you can’t knock a dude for trying, but sometimes you need to know when to stop. 

If a woman tells you she’s has a boyfriend or married, respect that shit! She does only see one dick 24/7, so yeah she may laugh and giggle a little. If you ask and you get the “No I’m married” card, stop at this point there is no need to ask if she needs a friend. No she does not need a fuck buddy. Now if she continues and wants to exchange info then that’s an entire different situation. Which I will not get into today!!! 

Now ladies you need to be careful when giggling and laughing with every man you come across. You should have self control especially if liquor is involved. A lot of woman tend to flirt and tease a man, which can lead to something called “rape.” You got to remember men and woman think totally different. While your thinking you living and having fun, he thinking imma fuck the shit out of her. So avoid the situation if you know you don’t want this man or want to fuck this man. Some men may just be rapist period and this is something you have to be aware of. 

Know the signs men, like I said not every woman wants you just because she flashed a smile. Think twice, think hard and evaluate the signs. 

A little tease from thee
The Passionista

Thursday, June 19, 2014

The right Melody to her Heart


Play every key softly and slowly, as you can see she has been broken.  Though she has been fixed, she has to be played in another unique way! The melody she needs are simple if you play the right note.  Yeah you may not know how to play it, but with time and a few lessons every stroke you play can rub her the right way.  The more gentle you are with the key to her heart the more she will treat you like a king and even let you in.

If your unsure how to play the right melody to her heart the best thing you can do is walk away! If you try that's cool, but do not think because you figured out how to play one song you could just play it all along.   Ever song grows old at some point and time.  So if you know you can't or won't try to play a new melody.  Don't start just to put her aside in a box so she can collect dust. Let her go and let someone else play the right melody to her heart!!!

QUESTION OF THE DAY: How big is too big?

Once upon of time my ass would swear to the dick gods for a BIG DICK!  First off people who never even fucked should never ever cry about dick size, because truly your little vajayjay can’t manage a big dick. Now once you start taking dick, I always think woman should enjoy and explore. Now explore don’t mean fucking everything you see, explore means don’t fall in love and wanting to marry that dick that got you sprung.  Now my first dick is still of my top 3 favorites and it will never die, he was medium.  Now my top 3 worst included the biggest dick of my life x 2!!

 Ok so this was in my hoeish, fuck a nigga faze after a HORRIBLE break up so don’t judge me (though I don’t give two shits, I’m just saying).  Now the first XXL Magnum was a waste! He had a HUGH dick and had no damn clue what to do with it.  Big dick, fine ass man but first pussy attitude.   I don’t know if it was; because he wanted it so bad he got confused or maybe pussy never came from someone so fine (lmao)!! I will forever believe in my mind, he just wanted it so bad since we knew each other for a while.  He was literally 9+, non-human I rather say! It took a nap and some convo to get it in.  Then it took some teaching of in-out techniques, because this mofo had no rhythm.  Then he wanted to get fancy and that is when I knew that big dick and I were not going to be friends.  I didn’t enjoy any position, absolutely NONE!  On top of all that, my vaja was in pain for a minute and not in a good way.

 My second big dick was more of a hell no what is that!  It was big, fat and black.  It looked like it should be framed and put into a dick hall of fame for big dicks, dipped in gold.  This was more emotional, because he knew he had a big dick. Though he looked so good, he could never keep a girl around.  I say girl, because at that time I was a girl growing into a woman.  If I was who I am now, I would have made that shit work, because he was a good man.  During our adventure he couldn’t even get in the tip, I mean it hurt to try.  KY didn’t work; neither did that bomb ass head.  I was so devastated, because he was so passionate.  His own down fall was most women’s dream, his dick.

 So to answer the question, well you really can’t it’s what you can handle or what you prefer.  My scary ass defiantly cannot manage a big XXL off the chart dick 7,8 is just fine, but I know numerous of woman that can manage 9+!  So woman need to just stop with the big dick talk and start with I need a dick just my size.

Yours truly,

The Passionista

Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Give your Vaja a Panty break….Sunday June 22 is No Panty Day

If your like me, I use more than one day a month or even a year for No Panties.  Sometimes your kitty really needs to purrrrr and take a breather. Taking a bath or a shower sometimes is just not good enough. Your vaja needs to feel free, get space and spread freely. Dick should not be the only way your she spreads. If your like me, I hate wearing anything tight when I am asleep. So if its not my granny panties then its defiantly no panties. The best time for no panties is after you shave! You should give your pours a break and not suffocate them after taking away all that hair. The best thing to do is spread eagle and pray a nice fat tongue lands right in it! (**NOTE** oral sex after shaving is not good, since your pours are open and are at risk of any infection.  Just because you don't see or feel anything, trust your pours are open.  This is why your vaja should not be completely nude.  I won't know no one, but its not good.)

 Take this as a tip and give your vaja a breathing session at least 3 times a week.

 WARNING: If you have rats, roaches, ants or any weird bugs, panties before bed is best for you. You do not want to wake up with anything in your ovaries unless its sperm.

 ~ My thoughts, my vision, my prerogative!!

 Mysteria
The Passionista

Divorce is not good, but Happiness is Better.....My long short story to you

To start off my blog I will share the pain that has caused me to stop what I love to build up my new home.  It used to be shameful to do this, but I share this for those women who will not leave a mental abuser because of the fear of being alone or feel they can't do any better!! With faith and god better comes when you believe. 
For 4 years out of 7 of being married I have suffered and struggle for this man I said vows too to love me. Getting together for all the wrong reasons I tried my best to still make it work.  I did my best to let him see all I wanted was a family. He has gained so much from me and all I got was drained.  He mentally drained me with his abusive tongue to keep me down and locked in his mind games.  Never once did he hear my cry.  Instead he put me down more to make it feel like what happened was all because of me.  Never would I imagine I would lose myself so bad it drew so many away, because of the pain I gained from him.  I didn’t trust ANYONE!!! To list a few things my family was not welcomed to stay at our house and if they did come over it was an issue, he tried to get my best friend drunk so his friend could sleep with her and he touched another one of my best friends while she was intoxicated. Not only did I stay I lost two people who I loved. Good thing they know the meaning of friendship, because after that we became friends again!!! 

We have been through sooooo much, but only happiness was what people seen! They thought we were a team and had a strong unit.  Never would anyone imagine the pain I was really feeling.  I mean with him getting his citizenship, which now he is able to work, learning a real skill that I went to school for and I have to pay back, tried my hardest to bring the best out of him and brought our beautiful  child in this world. After all the mental abuse and the emotional imbalance you would think this man would let me go in peace. You would think he would be happy that I am finally happy! Wishful thinking right!!??! This man treats me 10 times worse and as if I did him wrong!  He calls me irrelevant, he hopes I upgrade to better if I could do any better, tells me my son does not like me and not happy, claims he's happy I left, I'm lucky to have his son and last calls me evil. Anyone who knows me knows that I can be an emotional roller coaster I'm a Gemini! However evil I can never be. I wanted to be happy, so I left and because I left with nothing but our child, a car and my head high he's mad, angry and bitter. Like in our marriage he continues to feel he has to prove he is better than me and has to make money so he can show me I will regret leaving. Sad part of it all I met him with nothing working in a patty shop and living at home. I ask this question till this day what more would I want??? All I ever wanted from this man was a family and love. Something we can build together! Since he was not a man he was busy trying to find himself and breaking me down at the same time. 

I use to be mad and I refuse to let go, because I felt like I built this man up why leave and let someone else reap the benefits.  Then after counseling and some real soul searching, I finally let it go. I left it up to god and found happiness ALONE! No arguing, being insecure, feeling like “who I am” was a bad thing and feeling like I was no good.  It took years to be broken down but a shorter time after I left him to find happiness. I can go on and on about this and that, but my point is I found happiness. Being a woman who needs that attention and loves having a companion I am happy to know I can do without and still be happy.  

People wondered if there was any good and I say yes!!! However when the bad over shadow the good than there is nothing to hang onto! The best thing was my son! That was the best 9 months of my marriage. My son brought me the sense I needed to stop babying a man.  I did give him a bit of credit, because within 3 months he did more for me then he has in 5 years.  Then turned around and told me he only did it to see if he could do it, then all credits where lost. Silly me!!  I don't hate him and I wish him the best. I NOW know what I deserve and wanted to start over fresh, just not with him. Yes he still treats me like shit, which gives me more joy to know I did the right thing!! TRUST me looking at my son made me think, what did I do? Well I found me and I'm stress free. Not to mention my son is livelier, cries a lot less and is less anti-social.  With me leaving it benefited more than my happiness, it made my son personality do a 360! I no longer need to cry or care when he tries to break me down! All I do is laugh at his old bitter ass! He thought I was weak, I proved him and many others; even myself wrong.  

Fear makes us stay, once you give that fear up to god, he will help you along the new journey you will walk! He will not let you fall once you have that faith. A lot I yes  A LOT of new challenges will come along to make you think twice, however you always got to remember god will not put you through anything he know you could not handle. Easier said than done I still to this day battle with not losing faith, yeah I'm human. But I think of the goodness and find ways to keep that faith! My faith, my family and true friends gave me that strength and for that I am forever grateful!

I made it out....I did it!

My long short story to you
Mysteria