No honey all your making him want to do is go out and cheat on you.  Find someone to satisfy his needs since you playing games.  There are too many single women out here that your man can fake feelings for to get sex and come back to you, fuck you when you ready and have no remorse for his actions.  The dangerous part is when he finds someone who he can't resist and want to keep around because, he fell for her and can see more then he can with you.  That's where the problem begins.  Here you are in he little girl chase the pussy game, while your man out catching feelings for someone else. 

You mad that's cool, NEVER leave a window open for a butterfly to fly in and sweep your man off his feet.  Men fuck up that's what they do, however sometimes you have to look at yourself.  ESPECIALLY if he a good man, you won't allow to be one.  There is no one to blame but yourself.  Now you got to deal with him knowing he want someone else and whatever that person did that you didn't and can never compare too. 

I met a dumb chick the other day, whose man fell for someone else, which sparked this blog.  Sorry to call the women dumb, but this problem seems to be annoying and getting worse.  She said, "I don't play, let him play I won't give him none. I won't do this, I won't do that.  I will do this, I will do that."  She also goes on to say alllllllllllllllllll the things she does to make him pay, just because he a man, she won't allow to be a man.  I just listened to her dumb ass, because I am like that's not your man that's your pet you trained and just because he missed behaved you hold back.....don't feed him!!  Then get mad when he does what a man, who don't feel like a man do or get mad at the women he now can't get out of his system.  Be mad at yourself.  Playing games you think you winning, but in reality you losing, because you now have to burden the no trust factor.  Which a lot of women create in their own relationship.  Most of these women to me are dumb as hell.  I can say this because I was one of them.  I never held back sex, but I did things to not make him feel like he was not a man. I mean let's face it he was not a man.  I wouldn't allow him to grow on his own.  By doing this I should of been let him go but, I felt like I did all this why let go now.  This is when a man know he can fuck up, why because he know your ass won't and will never go anywhere.  When they know they have multiple chances with you with no fear of losing you, he will take each and every chance.  So again some women add to this epidemic of men doing them.  Which will never change because, you will forever take back what no other women will deal with. 

These type of women are NOT ride or dies or real MVP's. They are desperate and in need of help.  These are those women who try to please the eye of others faking like their relationship is golden, when they helped it fail in the first place.  They cause their own trust issues and headache by wanting things to go their way and not accepting that no man is perfect.

No sex is not the answer.  Get a Clue.

This is the problem with most people today! Now a days people have sex and while one person is thinking it’s a relationship the other is not. Now your in a confusing situationship. Sex is a dangerous feeling that can make people assume more then they should. This is why it’s good to know exactly what you want before approaching a situation. Being up front use to work, however now a days no matter how much you keep it real one of the two will begin to catch feelings or fake them. This is why if it’s a fuck thing you should keep it that way.

If it’s a see where it can go situation, yet you know what you want DO NOT let that good sex make you forget what you deserve or what you need! Last if you start to catch feelings and you know that feeling ain’t mutual go missing. Why? Because if you tell that person you have feelings they may fake feelings! They may even just go missing for you. If they do, just shake your head and be happy they did it for you! I mean who don’t want the best sexual relationship ever? We all do, but people tend to forget good sex do not save relationships!! It only creates a situationship. Some people stay because the sex so good. Others shut down, but that’s a totally different topic!!! Basically don’t let SEX fool you into something period!

Compromising - Meeting in the middle is something most couples miss. Without compromising for things your partners likes or wants to do can be a deal breaker and bring issues.

Understanding - everyone thinks about things differently and with compromising and communication understanding comes into play. You may not agree but understanding where that person is coming from and why that person feels that way is important.

Communication - without it nothing will last. Which makes it impossible to move forward. If there is a problem talk about it. Don't create a problem and def don't make the problem any worse by assuming. Pay attention and if it's a real matter to talk about then approach it correctly.

Acceptance - you can't be with someone with out accepting them for who they are and the baggage they carry. Acceptance also means accepting mistakes without making that someone who made the mistake suffer for making them.  If you accept their mistake punishing them or trying to regulate them only means you really do not accept them.

Motivate - you can't be with someone that does not motivate you. Nothing worse then to have a person you have too baby, a person too busy talking and dreaming but never ever makes a move or a person with no motivation what so ever. Being overly motivated can cause as much issues, because this person causes you to loose money. 1, 2, 3........after a few tries changing is good but wasting money is and will cause major issues.

Putting the sizzle back into your relationship, marriage and sex life requires practicing new things! A lot of folks who have kids feel like finding chemistry is very difficult.  My thought is if you have time to cheat, that means you have time to make your marriage or relationship work.  Small things like playing games, taking walks, working out, cooking together, cleaning together or plan old chilling after the kiddies are a sleep are a few additional ways to make things happen. Couples should learn practical insights on how to add spice to their sex life! Foreplay, orgasms, and a list of sexgestions are only the beginning... Toys and exotic get always are another. 

I have learned a lot in my marriage that not only prepped me for my next, it prepped me as a women.  Yes I said next, because I am not bitter nor do I down play marriage.  However though dating now is 100 times scarier and marriage seems to be the last thing on my list.  I will do it again.  Accepting the reality of it being over was the HARDEST part.  I chose my happiness over comfort and fear.  Don't get me wrong some have problems and do EVERYTHING in their power to fix it.  Which being the one to filed for divorce I feel deep in my heart I did, but once its broken its broken.   Some try to fix it, because that's where they are most comfortable or that's all they know.  Others try because of the famous line "For the Kids!"  Nothing changes if you DO NOT have the 5 top tips above, which I learned. 

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At some point in Life you come to see that sex with no meaning is the same as fucking for free. When I was a virgin I imagined sex in the most passionate way. Then after a few times of trying to get it, that one person had me wishing I was never introduced to “Dick” the Devil. Sex was so good, I loved how it made me feel, I loved how we had a connection, I loved……….ok wait now I think I love him. Well I did and he was my best friend, but the worst thing of my life happened…..he went upstate. This left me at 18, Ms. One Dick to the wolves of Devil Dicks. I waited for a year and a half till I ventured out because of that tingling sensation my body was feeling. The down fall of it all I was looking for that feeling again. The feeling we had, but now at 33 we, he, us had a meaning when we had sex. Others became a chase, a game of let’s see how far you will go for this pussy. Back then men would jump through burning hoops, which was fun, but if you were weak it would leave you devastated. This happened to me a few times. I got caught up with some Devil Dicks…you know the playa, the cheating husband, the playa, the one night stand, the playa, the confused, the playa, a few selective DJ/Artist, the Playa. However the one that got me was the one who said I love you, but I need help with these bills Dick. I was confused, I was lost....how can I give him all his freedom, no stalking calls, no questions, no where you at, we had fun, we could talk, SEX was amazing.....it was all WE!! One thing I would not do was take care of him, pay his bills. Not only that, this man BURNED me. Yes brought my ass a non-friendly STD. Then after our break up this fool had nerve to want me back, he literally eyed stalked me everywhere he saw me for months. With all that I turned me into the Devil Pussy that would look at you and tell you sorry it’s time to go home. I was rebellious, became a stripper (lol ever wondered where Mysteria came from) and was like man if you can’t pay my bills you can move to the left. I did that for a few years and it still left me lonely and unhappy, WHY because it was not me. I was MAD OF COURSE. Here I was being the honest faithful chick and the one man  who burned me and  I THOUGHT had meaning really wanted a financial planner. What stopped alllll of this in its track was when I decided to work things out with my true meaning of sex. I mean I literally didn’t have sex for 6 months and was moving to Jamaica. However he was murdered a few months after us having that talk. My life changed, my world went dark, and I felt nothing. Which lead me down the path of wanting something I didn’t need, which is an entirely different story/topic from this one! 

Conclusion:  
Some women enjoy sex so much meaning meant nothing as long as they came or felt good, some wish and even regret they could fuck randomly especially after being with one man for so long who did them dirty. Some women STILL have meaningless sex to avoid heartache, cover heartache or searching for something that’s missing. Yeah I sure did ENJOY sex because Cumming was a great stress reliever. Yet I was searching and STILL found nothing, but a valuable lesson. Never ever EVER seek what god never intended for you at that moment. Why…..because in the end it will lead to a test that can break you or make you into a stronger person. I would never change my past because it sure did make me stronger and I can laugh about most of it. I had fun, but everyone is not built that way. So choose wisely, because now a days to much random, too much no meaning and too much of nothings floating around.

Break free from the pain that has caused you to not trust, love or feel things that are real. Break free from the egos, the negative feelings, the mental break down. Break free from the lies, being put second, being loyal to the UN-loyal. Break free from the burden you carry from your past. Break free from the loss of the love you once called your one and true love. Break free from anything that does not serve you or grow you into a beautiful free minded spirit. Break free and spread your wings, not your legs because that is never the answer. Break free from sexual desires that have no purpose, meaning or growth. Break free from the shell that was built around society. Break free thinking that life lessons or let downs or pain or hurt or scares are a letdown. Break free because all of it is lessons for positive growth. Break free and praise god for the wings he has created for you to fly, be free and move on to your next journey. Break free this shell it's NOT for you!

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