Wednesday, June 25, 2014 in , , , , , , , , ,

The secret to make his toes curl

Recently the curl experience took place in a moment when I just wanted to give head! That’s the first key to suck-cessful head. If your not into sucking dick the curl affect will not happen for you! You must want to do it! 

Most men are different. Some like you to deep throat, some like the tip to be sucked only, some like the dick and balls talent, some like the balls to be sucked, some like you to caress the balls while sucking, some like when you suck and twist (using both hands), some just like to see the gag reflex, some like to hear that slobbing, spitting and sucking sound, some like you to lick the Penile (will get to that) and then some just like it all!

The second key is to find the toe curler. In my case the Penile was the deal breaker. When I did most of the above to try and find the toe curler, I knew I hit the spot when he clinched and held his mouth to control his outburst. What is the Penile? The Penile is the spot when you flip the dick (while on your knees looking up) and lick from the balls to the tip of the dick. For some men they cum quicker and for others it leaves them hard as a rocket to blow your mind!! 

Third tip don’t over kill the toe curler trick. Make him want it and yearn for it. Be gentle up till he is hard as a rock and your ready to feel all of the dick in your vagina. Always switch it up if you want to be a good head queen! Buy some flavor lube, be spontaneous and suck him random places. Nothing beats a quickie from a nice stiff dick.

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A Letter To My Father......A Must see site from Via @missjia

http://alettertomyfather.net/
Came across this site called A Letter To My Father from the one and only MissJia.    Like me so many women struggle with relationships seeking something in a man that they never got from their father or seen from their own father.  In my case I struggle with doing all I can so that man can stay even if he was no good or just cut them off with no reason or explanation because of a broken promise.  I had no idea that this was happening until I went through this soul searching episode.  I won't totally blame myself for my marriage, because trust I did try; However if I was not so desperate for a man's love and attention or just wanting to have a family of my own.  I would have NEVER stayed in something I knew was not real.  After digging and blaming and digging some more, I come to see that I followed a trend of chasing my father with not only my husband, but with men I "Loved" period. 

My dad was a man dedicated to his music and though he loved me, his love was not the kind of love you expect from a father.  When he was there, he was there and did EVERYTHING for me.  I was his baby girl.  I got the gifts, toys and more toys when he was missing.  At that time it was “to me” good, because as a little girl who didn't want all the barbies, dolls and doll houses?  As I got older I started to ask why and when till I started to sound like a broken record.  Why can't I come this weekend or why can't you see me this weekend.  It was too the point I didn't care for the gifts, I just wanted to see my "Daddy!"  I called, chased and basically drained my mother just to see my daddy.  All his promises where either broken or came true by my brother who I lost in 1996.  When boys got involved that urge little by little left from my dad, to the ones I dated.  To make it worse I had this weight on my chest from loss of the other man I felt loved me more than my father himself, so scared was an under estimate. Could I express this then to my mom?  No because she was busy taking care of 3 kids.  So as a teen I had to figure out  a lot about boys via friends and my own personal experiences.  


I can go on and on, but since I FINALLY found peace by expressing this to both my mom and dad.  I found peace with my past as a child and my past 3 heart breaks.   Not to mention the men I treated like shit because I was so angry, but used the "Ms. Independent" theory as a cover up.   To me  any women who have issues and holding on to some demons should find a way to talk about it.  Luckily I become an overly outspoken person, however not all women have that courage or urge to tell anyone or their parents, especially their father.  I still struggle I won't lie, but I sure do pray and try daily.  So to me A Letter to My Father is a great start.  This is not only for bad experiences but good.  Though I had issues with my dad we are very close, once again I was his baby girl till this day.  He being a father was my issue, because he ALWAYS treated me like I was a friend.  I never got it till I became a woman I was lucky to rebuild our friendship and got to see and understand why he was who "HE" was.  I say was, because he did change and he changed A LOT!!!  Feels weird but I am happy to see that people can change for the good. A lot of women do have great relationships with their dads; however a lot struggle from some issue caused by their dad.

This post isn’t about Love or Sex, but because a lot of women who seek fatherly love or resent men because of a missing father....I felt like sharing this site with you.

Tuesday, June 24, 2014

#PositionOfTheWeek goes to #Straddle his Saddle



Straddle the saddle is our position of the week. This position is defiantly dedicated to your stomach and other areas you never thought existed!  Now I must say this position requires a good size penis or it will not feel good inside. So really at the end of the day all you can do is try.  If you get the feeling of good pain then it's the right size.  Good pain meaning every spot he hits makes you get wetter.  If when you riding all you can say is "oh damn daddy" or "oh baby it's yours" or damn oh lord" then that's a good size.  NOW if you can't site up right, you feel like your insides or shifting or it feels like it's coming out from your chest.....then that is not a good size.  Oh, oh, oh is not ouch, ouch, ouch.  So this position defiantly is for a dick you can handle sitting up.  To be real you can have a good size, but certain positions you just can't do.  So this is why this our position of the week for you to saddle up and try!!!!

Not only did I enjoy the oh, oh, oh I enjoyed the intimacy of this position. If your feeling that person this position defiantly can build a deep connection. It's as if the body to body skin to skin really draws the two people together in a deep bond. To go deeper if you wrap your legs around him this is when the dick is introduced to your stomach officially.   The slow grinding on both parts can make you both feel something you never felt before, especially if you’re into that person.  Can you say waterfalls???  Wet is a understatement.  In this position he will be so wet from your juices flowing he would think you came multiple times.   

Now this can be all bad if one is feeling the other more or one is feeling that person and the other is not. This position can cause to real emotional confusion, because at that moment it feels real.  However as soon as it's over the real feelings come back.  It can even cause fake emotions because that feeling was so good, it leaves one to believe this is "Real!"  This is why one must know when it's only fucking, cause if not craziness happens and people get hurt.  There is a way to make Straddle the saddle a non-chemistry position.  If you stay in this position and begin to act like a mad bull everything changes.   Ride the dick till you cum and once you come turn around into the doggy style position so he can cum.  Then chuck the deuces.....ha ha ha!!! Nah I am joking I really do not want to promote that, but to avoid feelings for someone you’re not too sure is feeling you the way you do.  To be real how about you just avoid sex....IF YOU CAN!!!

Monday, June 23, 2014 in , , , , , , ,

Beautiful Mondays is what I call today!

Beautiful Mondays is what I call today! This morning I was told to listen to a song as beautiful as me called "Beautiful" by Mali Music. After really listening to lyrics all I can do is smile!!!  Check out Mali Music as he is a inspirational force needed not only in the music game, but for the many failing and losing faith in "Love!" 

Mali Is... Available Now! iTunes: smarturl.it/MaliIs?IQid=soundcloud